Life is continuously presenting you with opportunities to grow.
What intentions are you holding for this coming month? Can you see that in this very moment the universe ( and your higher self ) are presenting you with ways to grow into them?
You will know the ways to grow into things because there will either be a change in plans, you will feel stuck, things will break, friends will cancel, you will be split between two options...and more!
The universe is very creative! If you do not see it the first time, trust me, it will keep repeating until you do.
This happened with me over this past week:
My cellphone has been acting funny for a while. Typically, I was adjusting by rebooting, system restores, and taking the battery out. All the while I *knew* it was time to get a new phone.
About a month ago, I mocked up having a new cell phone because I was tired of how slow mine had become. Well, wish come true! Except, I didn't listen to the signals at first! I kept waiting. One morning I woke to find my phone sitting in a pool of mystery water. Seriously, I have no idea where it came from. Dead.
Then I thought I could get away with WiFi for a while and wait to get a new phone. Nope! My wifi crashed! I was a sitting duck all because I didn't act sooner. The nice part is I was so fed up with not having service I ran to the store and got a new (better) phone! I love it!
This is a smaller example. Consider bigger ones like money, love, dating, sex, and adventures.
So here is the thing. You can be the heroine of your life or you can play victim.
We all go through moments of playing both roles. So, no need to guilt yourself. This is a call to pay attention to the signs and take action! This way you move into your dreams faster!
So where in your life are you seeing something not working? I mean, no matter the ways you try it keeps finding new ways to break down.
Perhaps, this is the universe setting up situations so YOU take the action you truly desire. Can't find a j-o-b but don't want to work for the man anyway? Keep having someone cancel date plans and you want true love? Finding you have lots of time to yourself but you really want to travel? Can you begin to see how the disappointments in life aren't really bad. They are calling you to fall in line with your true heart's desire. Listen to the but/ands in those sentences. The heart's desire was at the tale's end. *hint hint
The universe will literally keep pushing you if you don't take action ( so that you do )!
It is not always around something that is wrong either.
In many ways, if an opportunity keeps popping up, it is likely something you should pay attention to as well. This is also the universe putting your desires right in your face on the daily.
So are you constantly being asked to take a leadership role? Do people who eat consciously keep showing up? Are people who live the lifestyle you want keep inviting you to events? Listen up! That is your signal! The universe is literally putting it in your face!
So what will it be? What action can you take on what the universe has been signaling? Leave a comment and let me know! I will follow up and give you some accountability. I want to see you grow! I know you want the same for your life as well.
If you ever need some extra help or things just seem too foggy to know what to do next........you can always set up a time to speak with me for a coaching session. I can help steer you back on to course and point out your life signalers. You deserve to be in alignment and receive your heart's desire. Let's get you back on track.
When offered a choice between the two you should always pick your truth.
If you are smack in the middle of a BIG life transition, you likely know exactly what I'm talking about here.
Here's the thing. At any given moment you are usually offered two very obvious options. Should you move to California to peruse your passion in the arts OR should you stay in your hometown (stay close to family) so that you can be there to help your sister with her kids?
Business coach or go on a vacation?
Netflix or exercise?
Girls night or date night?
Work or skip day?
Family or Lover?
Moving or Staying?
Are you following a past pattern or are you aligning your actions to your truth (...and the new reality you are creating)?
If you can begin to notice this, you can begin to catch yourself when you are slipping back into past patterns.
1. Notice the opportunity.
2. Does is relate to a past pattern?
3. What is your true reality? Your true vision for life?
4. Align back to your truth. Do what your truth would do.
Within the freakout, I considered going on food stamps so more money could go toward bills.
Inside my truth, I knew that everything was going to work out just in time.
I understood that the freakout did not align with the vision I had for my life. I knew that food stamps were a past pattern that only left me feeling stuck. I also knew that food stamps would only be validating that past patterns possible existence in my life.
In one way you can say, where you put your attention is what you get more of in your life.
I was not ready to give into an image of life that says, "I'm on food stamps".
The vision I was creating for my life was that I create miracles. I wanted to inspires others by doing the 'impossible'. Guess what? With a little coach support, I did just that. I stayed focused on the positives, stayed true to my vision in life, opened up like never before, and rejected any drama.
Seriously, I made way more than just rent that month + I had fun doing what I love to do!
Do you see, if you give in to the dark voices, the doubt, the fear....you will create that reality.
If you give in to your truth, your vision, gratitude, inner peace....you will create that reality.
You have always been in control of your life.
What will you choose?
Here's how to know if you might not be:
-you are not getting what you need.
-you feel exhausted often.
-you are constantly giving to others.
-you are angry at e-v-e-r-y-b-o-d-y and the world.
-you can't find your way out of a problem.
-you always support others no matter what.
Take a look at Britney Spears.
The costs of letting someone else set the intention, tone, flavor, or vibration of your life is HIGH! When someone else is setting the tone, you can loose your TRUTH in your health, wellness, money story, and relationships.
You know your truth. You know how powerful you are. You know how much you can have. You know the love you can attract. You understand how much money you can make.
Why? Because it is your truth.
If you find yourself saying, "I know that I can have it all!! Why is it not happening???"...*HINT* someone else might be setting the tone to the quality of your life.....and you are letting them.
Take a moment and consider if there is anywhere you are feeling like you want MORE?
It doesn't matter so much WHO is setting the tone in your life but that YOU begin to take charge.
3 Ways to Take Charge of Your Life
1. Set an Intention for Your Day and ROCK IT!
You are the creator of your life period. From the first moment you wake, try and set intentions for your day. Make this intention something that you can sum up into one word that represents a feeling. Do you want to feel happy today? Inspired? In love? Amused? Set that intention.
When something, or someone comes along, who is in contradiction to YOUR truth of the day....hold your truth! Ex. You want to beam with happiness and talk only with happy people. If you have a friend who is a total downer -always has a problem for you to solve- let them know that you really care, you hear them, and share your intention for the day. This might mean setting a boundary with this person. It might even motivate them to do the same for their life.
2. Take Responsibility for Your Life.
Own up to your life! Every single thing you are experiencing in your life is a result of an action (or lack of action) you have taken. You are the creator of your life. This means all the good and bad you experience is a based on you. When you take full responsibility for your life, you move more into control. You are no longer a victim. Life is no longer out of your hands. You have full control. When you are responsible for your life, you will learn from any mistakes you make in your life and take action to move forward from there. It's when your not responsible, that it is always someone else's fault...ie...someone else is setting the tone.
3. Take BOLD action.
The biggest thing you can do in setting the tone in your life is to take big, bold, action! Dream, make a decision, create a plan, and begin taking steps toward it every single day. Write it all down on a list and take bold action! Do sit doing nothing. You can set the tone, say happiness, and choose in every moment to do things that make you happy. Perhaps it will be booking that vacation, going to the spa, or quitting that job you hate for a new job you love!
What this does is take you out of being an observer of life and into being the creator of your life. Instead of dreaming you start to see your dreams come true! This is because you are taking direct action consistently and telling the world what you want for your life!
You have big goals for your life. You see yourself living a life vastly different than where you are currently. You want to bring something new into the world. You want to uncover more of you and ve an adventurous life. You are stepping into being YOU.
Perhaps you have a new project idea or you are considering a trip across the country. Perhaps,u are taking a new class or you are changing your eating habits. Perhaps, you landed a newent or you are updating your entire brand. In the end, you are wanting to feel more like YOU on a day today basis. You are seeking to have YOU reflected into the world from within yourself.
Are you feeling depressed, sad, lonely, lacking motivation, and without a drive?
It makes no sense right? Where the hell did all of that emotion come from so suddenly! You were inspired, happy, and successfully motivated yesterday. Why is it that today you feel so crummy?
Here's the thing I have noticed.
1. Person has a great success (of all types).
2. Celebrates this success.
3. Moves back into creating more.
4. Person suddenly feels all the feels (the sad ones).
Now, for some people they stop right here. They stay in this state and don't move forward. All those sad feelings built up can debilitate a person. It's tough sometimes.
Yet, there are others that don't smoke the bs cigarette (though they did get a contact high of sadness) and keep focused on the task at hand.
Which person will be? I'm here to say that you do not have to remain stuck.
Part of this is understanding what happens when you have a success or a creative idea in your life. What happens that can drive the creative, the spiritually influenced, the innovator, and the artist to the limit?
- As a psychic, what I have noticed is that after any success in life, you are more seen in the general public and among people you know. Why?
- When the spirit of you is more engaged, and it is when you are on a happy roll, you are more present.
- When you are more present in life, you are more seen by others around you.
- Other people will always have their opinions which are mostly based on what is happening with themselves.
- In being sensitive to other people's feelings, you may feel their opinions as your emotions.
Just think back on a few days after your moments of success. What were your feelings? Fear, worry, doubt, judgement, happiness, joy, elation, or nervousness?
You will always know your feelings because your feelings will always feel GOOD to you. Sure, you get sad but you can handle your own sadness. What you can't handle is 25 other people's sadness. If you have been indoors for days being sad, it likely not all your sadness at all.
Trick is, you are feeling that lack of motivation because a part of you may believe something that limits you. So, if you are feeling not worthy, 99% of that isn't your opinion. The 1% that is yours can be healed. These moments also highlight our blind spots.
Thing is, you do not have to sit around in 99% of other people's opinions.
5 Ways To Kick the Blues OUT of Success!
1. Do something that you LOVE to do!
When you are engaging in activities that you love, your energy is more profound. You can understand this because you suddenly come alive! Your pulse increases, you have a bounce in your step, you're curious about the next adventure, your creativity is up, and you feel more connected in the present moment. You are more you when you are doing the things you love.
The second bonus this offers is that you attention shifts back to YOU! Where your attention flows, your energy goes. Give yourself more YOU time and YOU is exactly what you will get. Your vibration will always feel good to you. Get more of YOU.
2. Get grounded!
Find a way to release all that energy. If you like nature, the ocean, or walking....go do that! Maybe yoga and exercise are ways you release stress. Hey, even sex can be grounding! The important thing here is to find a way to let go of any feeling that doesn't feel good. Find your inner peace.
3. Keep going! Remember your mission!
Don't you give up! Don't let a bit of sadness stop you from your main goal. You have a mission for this lifetime. Keep that mission close to your heart. All of these lack of motivation feels are simply a signal that you are creating something beautiful. If you can push through, you will see how golden the other side is for your life.
4. Feel it and Release it.
It does no good to be in denial. The truth is the most liberating thing you can bring into the world! It is true that the truth will set you free.
a. Sit with the feeling
b. Feel the feeling for as long as you need.
c. Forgive yourself for feeling it.
d. Admit it exists and see if you have an old belief coming up.
e. Remind yourself what you are creating in your life.
f. Thank the feelings for showing up and let them go.
g. Breath. Go do some self care.
5. Watch something that motivates you!
What motivates you speaks to your truth. When you take time to listen to what inspires your life, you connect back into your truth. So, what are your favorite podcasts, talk show hosts, movies, songs, and books? Go take time to get yourself inspired again!
*Bonus Tip! Go Celebrate! You say you did already? Go celebrate again! What this does is bring all your attention back on to your success (not the blues). Where your attention goes, energy flows. You can stay in your success vibration by continuing to celebrate your WINS! + The communication with friends will brust through all that doubt because good friends will remind you who you really are.
So those are my tips! If you are in a funk after a recent success, try these out! You do not have to stay funky. You have big plans. Push through and get back to feeling like YOU.
You can do it. I totally believe you can.